Saturday, February 25, 2012

Three weeks out...

Hello friends ~

It's hard to believe I am a few days over 3-weeks out from my surgery.  Surprisingly I continue to be doing really well.  I feel I have turned a corner this week, partially because I have been able to move onto "mushy foods".  It's been hard to get on a schedule where I have been getting in enough protein, water, etc. and while this will be something I will always have to work on, I finally feel like I am getting a good rhythm.

Glenn and I are visiting my parents near Corpus Christi this week and having a great time.  The weather hasn't been as nice as was originally predicted, but we have still been able to get out and see some things and do some good walking. As I can now eat "mushy foods" I have been able to eat fish, steamed veggies and mashed potatoes (a very small portion of each), which has been extremely nice when eating out.

I am going back to work on Monday and Tuesday and then will take the rest of the week off to visit my parents just outside of San Antonio, their final week in Texas.  Glenn and I have had a great time with them and will be sad to see them go.  We are just so thankful they were willing to come out for so long to help us and to give us some good family time!

My posts might be less about my surgery and more about just life in general moving forward from here forward.  I will continue to give updates about my progress as there are things to report and will continue to list prayer requests as needed.  At this point, things are going better than expected, and I hope this means some of the bigger issues (ovary problems) will get under control with time as well.

My continued thanks for your prayers and concern.  I know that I am doing so great because of YOUR faithful prayers for me.

With love and a joyful heart,
~ Stephanie

Sunday, February 19, 2012

Pureed foods and lots of walking

Dear friends ~

Many of you have sent me messages or called in the last few days.  Please forgive me if I have not yet responded.  I am really trying to make resting and getting used to my new routine my top priority!  Thanks for being patient, I hope to reply to all soon!!

Last I wrote I mentioned that I got to start pureed foods, and that I was excited.  This part has not been as easy as I hoped. I have been a little gun shy about trying new things.  I was comfortable with my liquid options, knowing how much to eat, how my body would react and trying to follow all the nutrient guidelines.  Moving to pureed foods means that with every new thing I try, I wait and wonder how my body will respond.  I continue to be able to have milk, and while I will be following the vegetarian diet, I have tried blended chicken (made chicken and dumplings for my parents and Glenn) and didn't have any issues.

I really am just struggling with things that I was warned about and prepared for during my 6 months of Nutritional Classes, but as we all know, knowing and doing are two different things.  I am supposed to get in a certain amount of protein and calories in my system each day while I am healing, as well as a specific number of oz. of water.  All this is a big challenge in the midst of a very small tummy and trying new foods.  Thankfully, other then a full day of being really dizzy and light headed, and a few tummy aches, possibly from eating too much (2 eggs - should have only had 1), I have not had any terrible stories. 

Dr. Garth also told me to try and walk every 2 hours during the resting and healing period and to aim for 10,000 steps a day.  While I have yet to reach 10,000 I am getting closer and closer day by day.  Thankfully the Houston weather has warmed back up, so today I got a wonderful walk in. 

My parents time in Houston ended yesterday and they relocated to Corpus Christi.  They are having a great time there so far, and we plan to join them for most of the week in the next few days.  My mom and I have made some soups, and I have been thinking through some other things I can eat while we are there.

My biggest prayer requests are:
  • Drinking enough water (I'm not getting enough each day)
  • Not being fearful to try new foods (for nutritional purposes most of all)
  • Getting on a schedule that works.  Working around energy issues, getting enough water and food in, plus resting and taking walks has actually been a challenge.  I plan to go back to work full-time the first week of March, so that gives me 2 weeks to work on this.
Thanks again for your concern and your prayers!  Much love to each of YOU!!

Joyfully,
~ Stephanie

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Valentines Day brings good news!

Dear friends ~

I hope that you have had a wonderful Valentines Day today!!

Today was my post opt appt. with my surgeon Dr. Garth Davis.  I was so excited to see him, especially as I started reading his book this week, and I had some questions for him.  I was also anxious to see if he was feeling as good about my progress as I was.  He was happy to see that I was not only healing well, but that I was feeling so great!  I haven't had to take any pain medicine since I last wrote, and I have been feeling really good and even like my energy level is back to normal.  Dr. Garth is a Vegetarian, and encouraged me to consider this after my surgery and was happy to hear that that is my plan.  I shared that I plan to try red meat, chicken, etc. in time, to see if my system can handle them.  Many patients who have this surgery have a hard time digesting meats after surgery, so I wanted to know how to react for those times I decide to eat something with meat in them.  All this being said, I will practice the Vegetarian lifestyle most of the time, with the occasional meat dishes.  Dr. Garth gave me the thumbs up for moving onto the "pureed food" stage.  He even said that I might not have to the normal two weeks on this stage, if after a week I am handling pureed foods well.  After pureed foods comes mushy foods, then finally regular food.  My next appt. is near the end of March and I am trusting all will go great until then.

After my appt. my parents and I headed to my church where I work to give some soup to a friend who is also going through a medical situation.  It was fun to show them around and see my friends and co-workers.  All seemed surprised that I am doing so well at this point, and I am confident things will continue this way as so many of you are praying!

Thanks for continuing to pray and be supportive.  YOU are a huge part of why I am doing so well!!

Much love,
~ Stephanie

Thursday, February 9, 2012

A week since surgery...

Hi!

It's hard to believe it's already been one week since my surgery!  I so thankful that I have had such a smooth go of things.  This doesn't mean I feel great all the time, or that the pain has gone away, but I haven't had many of the issues that someone might have after this surgery.

Yesterday, after feeling cabin fever creeping in, we decided to head to Galveston for the day with my parents.  They had never been and wanted to check things out.  It was a fairly chilly day, but the skies cleared up.  It was fun to drive around and just be out of the house.  We ended up taking a little boat tour and got to see some dolphins.  This was the first time we had seen them in the wild, and they were beautiful.  We toured a ship and walked through a museum and then took my parents out to a nice seafood dinner on Pier 22.  I took it easy all day, or so I thought...

Last night I slept 12 hours, and had to up my pain medicine, as I had been cutting back.  When I finally woke up at 10:30 this morning, I have was so sore, and haven't been able to shake it all day.  Funny how much walking, and mostly sitting, can take out of you after surgery.  I spent most of the day laying around watching chick-flicks and writing valentines, with a few short walks around the block. 

I guess finding the balance in resting and also getting around and moving will be something I will need to continue to work on, as I really don't want to jeopardize healing quickly.

My parents went to the Fine Arts Museum today and then came over for Glenn's delicious meatballs in the form of sub sandwiches for dinner, and we caught up on Top Chef Texas.  I am anticipating another long night of sleep, and hoping I wake up in less pain. 

My post opt appt. with Dr. Garth is next Tuesday, Valentines Day, and I look forward to hearing my six incisions are healing well and that I can move on to pureed foods.

Thanks for continuing to keep me in my prayers, for the encouraging messages you send, and just for being a great friend!

Joyfully,
~ Stephanie

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Home sweet home!

Dear friends and family!

Forgive me for not writing sooner, I hoped to write last night which was my first night home.  It is so nice to be home, even though I want to stress that I had the best experience in the hospital.  I loved every nurse, tech, etc... who came my way and made some great connections.  I even talked a few nurses into considering going on a medical mission trip.  Emails were exchanged, so hopefully I will be able to stay in touch with a few!

I left the hospital saying... "I feel great, I can't believe I am in no pain..." and about 2 hours off the IV and I was like... "oh no, I feel sore, why do I hurt so bad...".  I learned a lesson last night - take pain medicine on time!!  I am not always quick to take medicine for things like headaches and such, so this rolls over to times like this where I will think I can tolerate more pain then I really can. 

I am off clear liquids and allowed to have full liquids (protein shakes, yogurt, cream soup, etc... but all strained and all with milk added to thin them out).  I was warned that I might be lactose intolerant after surgery, but so far I am not, and I am thankful!!

My parents have been a huge blessing to us!  Running us around and we love their company.  They help to keep my mind focused and positive too. They love the show Diners Drive-In's and Dives on the Food Network, and have already been to a couple places here in Houston (Kenny and Ziggy's and Niko Niko's). 

My husband Glenn, as always, is taking great care of me in every way and very loving and supportive.  It's all kinda hitting him now.  It's hard for him to see me in pain and not as bubbly as normal, and he just wants everything to be ok for me. 

No one said this road would be easy, and it's not, but I continue to be thankful for the great progress and remaining joyful through it all.  Please pray that I will continue to heal, that I will not get a blood clot and that I will drink enough water and stay hydrated.

Much love,
~ Stephanie

Thursday, February 2, 2012

Surgery went great!

Hey there friends!!!

Just wanted to let you know that surgery went great and we've been able to keep my pain to a minimum. I've been able to rest a lot and do some walking around the halls which has been nice too! In the morning they will have me do an ink test to make sure things are going through my system correctly and that there aren't any leaks. Let's be praying for the best!

One last walk and I'm going to try and get some sleep. My husband is able to stay the night with me, so that will make things easier.

A big thanks to Pastor Bill Heston for coming to pray with us this morning and it has been such a blessing yo have my parents here. They keep me both calm and laughing!! God has been answering our prayers and kept me at peace and joyful all day!

Thank you for caring about this journey I'm on, I really appreciate it!!

Love and joy!!
~ Stephanie

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

12 hours from now...

Hi friends ~

It's hard to believe that in 12 hours I will be in surgery! 

My parents made it safe and sound to Houston yesterday and we are already having a great time with them.  We went to the RV park they are staying at yesterday, and love that they are "camping" in Houston!!  Tonight they came over to our place and my amazing hubby grilled them some dinner and I took them for a walk around the neighborhood. 

I just took my second shower, and in 2 hours I have to wipe my body down with these sterile wipes they gave me (hope this isn't too much information).  Hopefully right after that I'm off to bed!  If you are reading this tonight, please pray I sleep well.  I have been at complete peace, so I am hoping I won't be up all night thinking about things.  The hospital called earlier today and told us to arrive at 5:30am (just 30 min earlier) as my surgery is at 8:00am.

Many of you have emailed, called, text... in the past few days, and I am so sorry if I hadn't been able to write you back yet.  Know that I have read all my messages and am coveting your prayers and words of encouragement.

So thankful Jesus has brought YOU into my life and I will update you as soon as I can!

Much love,
~ Stephanie